9 Dog Playdate Rules Every Host Breaks (And the 1 That Ends Friendships)

The difference between a dreamy playdate and a stressful one comes down to small things — etiquette. Here it is.

Dog playdates are basically the best invention ever. Two or three pups, a safe space, some zoomies, a few naps. But the difference between a dreamy playdate and a stressful one often comes down to etiquette.

Before the Playdate: The Pre-Party Checklist

For the host

• Pick a neutral or dog-friendly space (backyard or park works better than your living room for new pals)
• Remove high-value items: bones, favorite toys, food bowls
• Stash anything breakable at puppy-tail height
• Set out a few interchangeable toys (nothing a dog will resource guard)
• Fill water bowls in multiple spots
• Secure gates, doors, and fences